Sunday, July 22, 2012

Perfectionism


Some people regard themselves as perfect, but only because they demand little of themselves.

---------- Hermann Hesse

Does anyone struggle with perfectionism? I know for me that when I got sober I needed to live right. In order to live right, I needed to do the right thing but to what level? I know that today I’m ok with the mistakes that I make in my life. Everything doesn’t have to be perfect. After all no one is perfect. The need to be perfect stems from and feeds myself centeredness. Do I really want that? I know from my experience that this will only bring me unhappiness.

There will always be the person in your life that says, “You can do better than that”.  Sometimes that will be good encouragement and other times it’s just the nagging voice of an advisor. It’s during those times that I need to stop and think, maybe ask God for help, and be reminded that the worst vice of all is ADVICE. 

With the exception of Olympic athletes can anyone justify their perfection? How’s that working out for you?

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